Posts by Ken Curry

As men transition from being “nice”, living from fear and externally referenced to being integrated and solid, often a common and unexpected quandary happens. As he becomes more driven by internal categories, the pursuits that previously gave energy, drive, focus and thrill now have less power and excitement. It is as though a core part…

A solid man lives unapologetically. Here’s your challenge; never say the words “I’m Sorry” ever again in your life. If you make a mistake, own it and say “I was wrong when I .” or “I made a mistake when I .” But never say “I’m Sorry”. Those words have become meaningless and they are…

We all start life thinking we are the center of the universe. As we mature we realize that we are part of something much greater than ourselves, that there is something going on in the universe that totally transcends us. There is something or someone beyond us that existed before we existed and will exist long after we are gone. Understanding the fact that we are limited and being not all powerful is a primary aspect of being human.

This post is an overview of the main shift that needs to happen in a man’s life so he can actually begin to live his own life. Men who struggle with a lack of integrity (in all forms) have not developed a strong inner solid core from which life is lived. Often a man’s life…

One of the most important needs our woman may have is to be heard and listened to. The way a woman needs to be listened to is to hear what she is saying and be curious about her experience. However, most men can not understand this. Since men communicate in different forms for different reasons, a man becomes befuddled when a woman would say “I just want to be heard!”