Discover a life worthy of legend. The life you've always wanted.
No one holds the map to building a great life but you.
It’s already inside you.
The map is hidden deep in the unexplored territories of your soul, what is deep within, what is real, the territory of your identity, who you really are. That's what we are after, your true authentic self that is wilder, stronger and more expansive than you can possibly imagine.
You've probably been told over and over that you suck, that something is wrong with you. We will find what is right with you, who you know you really are, but haven't experienced that fully yet.
If you’re ready, we will chart it together. We will find the true story of your life, the true narrative of your identity that you've always known is there and we will bring that to life.
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What Is Solid Man®?
Solid Man is designed to empower men to become who they really are, to reclaim their true authenticity and autonomy, to build a life of love, connection and influence.
It's for the man who senses there is more to life than what seems like a slow and average demise. If you've ever caught a glimpse of the wild territory in your own heart and want more, this is for you. If you are prepared to embrace the courage needed to explore what lies far beyond the limits set by external expectations, you will unlock the truth and begin to live in freedom.
The path is difficult and completely worth the effort. Take the first steps off the beaten path of the average man and dive into the greatest challenge you'll ever experience.
If anger, porn, or anxiety have taken you out, if your relationships have taken a beating; Solid Man reclaims the territory that's been lost.
This journey will take intention, focus and challenge. You will push into discomfort, uncertainty and exercise parts of you that have been dormant for way too long. You will question all the stories you’ve been told about who you are and what life is all about.
There are no promises; you may or may not save your marriage. You may or may not eliminate addiction, but you will grow, relational connection will increase, and you will cultivate your inner strength. You will be empowered to create the life you want, that you have always wanted.
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Meet Your Guide
Ken Curry
MA, LMFT
My name is Ken Curry, I am a husband, a father, a grandfather and a mentor to men. Mostly I am a father. No matter your season of life, young man just starting, mid-life in a crisis of meaning or beginning to wrestle with aging, I will be your guide, like a father. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and I am passionate about empowering men. That’s what I do.
You've probably believed a narrative about who you are that is not true. You’ve believed it without question and believing it has shut you down, shut you up and keeps you obediently in line. That’s not how men were created to live.
That’s the way I was. From the beginning, I was taught to question myself, my power and my capabilities. I was told lies about life and who I was. I questioned my worth and value as a man. I thought something was wrong with me, that I was never good enough. I had no confidence, presence or influence, always striving to make up for some internal defect. But, deep inside I knew I had so much more in me.
You may feel this way too, that something is wrong with you, you have to prove yourself to others, pleasing to make sure everyone else is happy while inside you are empty. You are probably reading this because this way of life hasn't worked and you want some answers.
As you do this work, you will gain a strong internal structure, a well-defined presence, deeper integrity and you will begin to trust yourself. You’ll discover that you are whole and complete. You’ll find out like I did, that you are good enough, not perfect, but enough and strong. I found out my true identity and what I am really capable of, you will as well.
The Solid Man work has changed my life and the lives of hundreds of other men. Jump in.
What will Happen?
You'll quit being tossed around by the opinions and expectations of others.
You have allowed an external voices to dictate and drive your life. Could be pleasing your wife, not disappointing your parents or giving in to a boss. Solid Man eliminates that external point of reference and moves you decisively into an internally referenced life. You'll begin to hear the voices that matter. You will tap into your Source and hear your own heart for once. If you do engage in group, you'll experience the power of a cohort of men that are passionate about reclaiming their lives as well.
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You'll dig up and destroy the roots of your self-limiting beliefs once and for all.
We all have fears, wounds and some degree of trauma from simply living on the planet. We will identify what hides under the surface and destroy their power to derail your momentum in life.
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You'll grow beyond the doubters, skeptics, and critics that keep you stuck.
No one can argue against undeniable change. Your wife may roll her eyes at first, but that will stop when she sees the new man that emerges from the shell she once knew. When transformation is self-evident no words are needed.
It doesn't matter how many times you have tried in the past and failed, there is hope. Any man willing to put in the effort to confront the change that is possible can be transformed.
I guide men who are willing to invest their lives in the adventure of a lifetime. There is no guarantee of success. But there will be some good work, some tough introspection, and you'll get an awe-inspiring vision of who you've been designed to be.
I am located in Colorado
Solid Man offers counseling, coaching and a number of men's groups online. Sign in below, let me know your questions and I'll get you set up with what you need.
Solid Man Tools & Opportunities
Here are the options to get you moving forward. Find what works for you, let me know if you have any questions about the Solid Man process. If you don't know where to start, set up a 50-minute initial coaching call and we'll discover the best next step towards being the Solid Man you were created to become.
Self Starter
You can do a lot of work on your own if you are a self-starter. I have books and a workbook available for you. Take the first step into your uncharted life with the first book in the Solid Man series. This book is the first step towards discovering true freedom as a man. If you need to, contact me and I can give you some guidance as well.
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Solid Man® Groups for Men
We need other men in our lives. For support, challenge and fun. We need these lifelong relationships.
The Solid Man group is an online community experience that will craft your masculine strength. You will be guided by Ken and supported by a community of men focused on growth and discovery. The Solid Man curriculum will be provided for you to become the man you've always longed to be.
Cost: $55 / per Weekly Meeting
50-minute Initial Coaching Session
I offer an Initial Session to see if we are a good fit for what you want to accomplish. Contact me and we can set up a time to meet. We will do introductions and You'll be able to tell as much of your story as you want and we will discuss your goals and what you want to accomplish. My coaching is a customized process of equipping, training and practicing the skills you need to become a solid man. We will build your Solid Frame and the relationships you are looking for.
Cost: $50.00
Solid Man® Coaching
The coaching experience with Ken is a customized, life-changing immersion into the Solid Man Process. He will take your personalized goals and create a map to make it happen. You will find a clear path toward a radical transformation of your life. You will get to the core of your life difficulties and begin to develop the life you want. This is designed to set you free to be the man you were made to be. Set this up as soon as you are ready.
Cost: $150 per hour
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