Discover a Life Worthy of Legend.
No one holds the map to your life or the path to your recovery but you.
It’s inside you.
It's hidden in the unexplored territories of your soul. The map is just a picture of what is deep within, what is real, the true territory of your true self. That's what we are after, it’s wilder and more beautiful than you can possibly imagine.
If you’re ready, we will chart it together. We will find the true story of your life, the true narrative of your identity that you've always known is there and we will bring that to life.
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What Is Solid Man®?
Solid Man is a process I've developed over the years to empower men to become who they have been designed to be. It's for the man who knows there is more to life than what seems like a slow and average demise. If you've caught a glimpse of the wild territory in your own heart and are prepared to embrace the brutal honesty and courage needed to explore what lies beyond the limits set by external expectations you can unlock the truth and live in freedom.
The path is difficult and completely worth the effort. Take the first steps off the beaten path of the average man and dive into the greatest challenge you'll ever experience.
If anger, porn, or anxiety have taken you out, if your relationships have taken a beating; Solid Man reclaims the territory that's been lost.
This journey will take intention, focus and challenge. You will push into discomfort, uncertainty and exercise parts of you that have been dormant for way too long. You will question all the stories you’ve been told about who you are and what life is all about.
There are no promises; you may or may not save your marriage. You may or may not eliminate addiction, but you will grow, relational success will increase, and you will cultivate your inner strength. You will be empowered to create the life you want.
Meet Your Guide
Ken Curry
MA, LMFT
My name is Ken Curry, I am a husband, a father, a grandfather and a mentor to men. Mostly I am a father. No matter what season of life you are in, young man just starting, mid-life with a crisis of meaning or beginning to wrestle with aging, I will be your guide, like a father. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and I am passionate about empowering men. That’s what I do.
You've probably believed a narrative about who you are that is not true. You’ve believed it without question and believing it has shut you down, shut you up and keeps you obediently in line. That’s not how men were created to live.
That’s the way I was. From the beginning, I was taught to question myself and my capabilities. I was told lies about life and who I was. I questioned my worth and value as a young man. I thought something was wrong with me and I was never good enough. I had no confidence, presence or influence, always striving to make up for some internal defect. But, deep inside I knew I had so much more in me.
You may feel this way too, that something is wrong with you and you have to prove yourself to others, making sure everyone else is happy while inside you were empty. You are probably reading this because this way of life hasn't worked and you want some answers.
As you do this work, you will gain a strong internal structure, a well-defined presence, deeper integrity and you will begin to trust yourself. You’ll discover that you are whole and complete. You’ll find out like I did, that you are good enough, not perfect, but enough. I found out my true identity and what I am capable of, you will as well.
The process I developed changed my life and the lives of hundreds of other men. The Solid Man Process is very real.
What’s In It For You?
Quit being tossed around by the opinions and expectations of others.
Perhaps it's been your wife, your parents, or a boss, whoever it is, you have allowed an external voice to dictate your life. Solid Man moves you decisively to an internally referenced life. You'll begin to hear the voice that matters. You will tap into your Source and if you engage in group, the power of a cohort of men that are passionate about reclaiming their lives.
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Dig up and destroy the roots of your self-limiting beliefs once and for all.
We all carry wounds and some degree of trauma from simply living on the planet. Pinpoint those that hide under the surface and destroy their power to derail your momentum in life.
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Grow beyond the doubters, skeptics, and critics that keep you stuck.
No one can argue against undeniable change. Your wife may roll her eyes at first, but that will stop when she sees the new man that emerges from the shell she once knew. When transformation is self-evident no words are needed.
It doesn't matter how many times you have tried in the past and failed, there is hope. Any man willing to put in the effort to confront the change that is possible can be transformed.
I guide men who are willing to invest their lives in the adventure of a lifetime. There is no guarantee of success. But there will be some good work, some tough introspection, and you'll get an awe-inspiring vision of who you've been designed to be.
I am located in Colorado
Solid Man offers coaching and a number of men's groups online. Sign in below, let me know your questions and I'll get you set up with what you need.
Solid Man Tools & Opportunities
Here are the options to get you moving forward. Find what works for you, let me know if you have any questions about the Solid Man process. If you don't know where to start, set up a 50-minute initial coaching call and we'll discover the best next step towards being the Solid Man you were created to become.
Self Starter
You can do a lot of work on your own if you are a self-starter. I have books and a workbook available for you. Take the first step into the wilds of your heart and your uncharted life with the first book in the Solid Man series. This book is the first step towards discovering true freedom as a man. If you need to, contact me and I can give you some guidance as well.
Groups for Men
We need other men in our lives. For support, challenge and fun. We need these lifelong relationships.
The Solid Man group process is an online community experience that will craft your masculine strength with a cohort of select men. You will be guided by Ken Curry and supported by a growing community of men focused on growth and discovery.
Cost: $55 / per Weekly Meeting
50-minute Initial Coaching Session
I offer an Initial Session to see if we are a good fit for what you want to accomplish. Contact me and we can set up a time to meet. We will do introductions and You'll be able to tell as much of your story as you want and we will discuss your goals and what you want to accomplish. My coaching is a customized process of equipping, training and practicing the skills you need to become a solid man. We will build your Solid Frame.
Solid Man® Accelerator
The Accelerator is an intense, life-changing immersion into the Solid Man Process. It is a customized weekend with Ken either by yourself or with other men. You will find a clear path toward a radical transformation of your life. You will get to the core of your life difficulties and begin to develop the life you want. This is a process designed to set you free to be the man you were made to be. Let's set this up soon.
Cost: Customized Cost — Time Determined by You
Transformative Events
6 men will join me here in Colorado to dive deep into the elements that have shaped solid men throughout history. In addition to intensive time as men sharpening one another and being challenged by peers, participants will enjoy
- Access to some of the most incredible terrain on earth.
- Focused time, free of distractions to fully realize the man you were created to become.
- The power and depth of a small cohort of men, and direct access to Ken Curry.
The Solid Man® Expedition
Cost: $500.00 — Space is Limited to 6 Men
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